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The Living Without Series

This is a series of posts that I wrote back in 2006 on living with less stuff. Check them out: liv011Living #2liv031liv04

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The Chicken Doctor

April

The Architect

Clay

The Candy Man

My dad owned and operated a vending business that was started by his father.  They serviced a huge area that spread from southwest Kansas up to northwest Kansas into Nebraska and Colorado.  I loved riding on the candy truck and when my sister and I were babies, my mom would occasionally set up a play pen in the truck and we would all go on the route with my dad.  We couldn’t go anywhere without my father looking at other vending equipment.  He’d comment on what they had stocked, if the machine was clean, and then take note if they had their business card visible.

We always had the expired candy and chips in our pantry.  I went through a phase where I wouldn’t touch a chocolate bar because I thought they were all chalky white and yucky and potato chips did nothing for me.  My friends though, thought they’d died and gone to Willy Wonka’s Heaven when they saw the stash on chips and candy.

My sister and I would walk to my father’s business after school to wait for my mom, who was the secretary, to get off of work.  We would climb the mountain of boxes holding the candy and make a little nest in the middle of the pile so we could break into a box and help ourselves to the candy without being seen.  I remember going though quite a few M&M’s.

My dad was out on the route a lot and I didn’t see him very often.  He went to bed right after the news and was out the door before I ever stirred in the morning.  It was a bit like my dad was a baker.  He had a very strict routine in the morning and I knew he was headed out the door when I heard the familiar scrape of his keys being picked up off the bathroom counter and the jingle as he fastened them to his belt loop and then his quick footsteps down the hall with every other step producing a rattle of over twenty machine keys bouncing on his hip.

My dad is now in his late 60′s and has been retired for ten years.  He’s a much happier man now that he doesn’t have to get up before the sun and run a business.  Last winter I took this video of him when he was on his way to ride his bike somewhere.  I’ll never forget the time he was unwrapping a candy bar and said to me, “I sold an awful lot of these things to pay for your college.”


Fast Tube by Casper

When my grandfather passed away, the pianist played “Candy Man” as we exited the sanctuary and the florist, with my mother’s direction, had decorated one of the large floral arrangements with little candy bars.  My dad offered both my husband and my sister’s husband the opportunity to move back to western Kansas and take over the business, they both declined the offer with good reasons.  Dad sold the business to another family and now there are no more candy men in our family.


Fast Tube by Casper

Fun Summer #1

This is my all time favorite photo from this summer.  I can’t tell you how much I love these kids!  That they have no problem posing like giant goofballs for me gives them serious extra credit points.

So, for the next week or two, I’m going to try to post a goofy photo or video from this summer every day.  Okay, so I might not do it every day, but I’ll try…that’s the best I can do.  I’ve learned not to seriously commit to anything, ever, at least not seriously…never seriously commit or commit seriously….I’m serious.

We are busy doing one farm project a day around here until school starts and let me tell you, it’s amazing how much better the farm looks after just two days and it’s even more amazing how badly my fingers, feet, knees, shoulders and neck hurt.  When did I turn into a decrepit old lady?  And if someone could please tell the middle of my body to stop inflating…I would appreciate it…give me a pin so I can pop the dang thing!  Geez, what is this post about again?  Oh, right…seriously posting a photo every day and then getting committed.

The Fish Hatchery vs. Go Carts

My parents were kind enough to invite my family and my sister’s family along to stay in a cabin they rented for the weekend in Branson, Missouri.  Trying to figure out what to do with all the kids without spending a fortune was a bit tricky.  My sister decided we should all go to the fish hatchery.  So off we went.

Guess what we saw at the fish hatchery?  Yep, fish.  Trout to be specific.

Trout, trout, trout and more trout.  Some of the kids were fascinated by the fish.

Others, not so much.

It was fish, it was free, what should we expect?  So, what to do next?

It was a hot humid day which is the perfect weather for…..

riding go carts! The go carts were not free!

Before we left for this little weekend trip, Clay and I budgeted an amount that we would spend and then we decided to spend it on family fun.  So, we skipped going to a show one night and saved the money for some fast fun!

When I asked my kids what they liked best about the trip, the three oldest said, “GO CARTS!”  My kids had a great time racing their dad, uncle and cousins.

The best part was, we had the track all to ourselves!

The kids lined up from oldest to youngest.

The little tiny-tater-tot was too teeny-tiny to go by his baby self, so mommy took him.

Have I ever told you that my itsy-bitsy baby is going to kindergarten this fall and all his classmates are a head shorter than him?  What’s with that?  Cuz, my baby is the squishiest little button baby ever!  Right as I pulled out to race I did what any good mother would do and yelled at the two eight year olds, “SEE YA SUCKERS!!!!”

And we raced round and round and round!

The competition was stiff. The main goal was to run your cousin, aunt, uncle, dad or mom off the track so they got stuck and couldn’t race.  The smack talk continued.  Some were determined to win, some were determined to destroy, some were just hot and sweaty and glad they were still alive.

And when they were done, I asked, “Who wants to go back to the Fish Hatchery?”

I got the same response as when I ask, “Who wants to help clean the house?” …..they pretended not to hear me.