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The Living Without Series

This is a series of posts that I wrote back in 2006 on living with less stuff. Check them out: liv011Living #2liv031liv04

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April

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Clay

Moving Day Part II

moving day remembered cont….

We arrived at our destination in Kansas Sunday evening. Mom and Dad decided to check into the hotel with us. Dandy Randy the Realtor dropped by and gave us the keys to our new place and then we tried to go to sleep. But with two cats, four kids and two adults all stuffed into one hotel room not to mention the constant hum of nerves and anxiety about what the next day would be like we didn’t get a whole lot of sleep that night.
The next morning we dropped Ellen off at her new school and showed Ike his classroom. Clay and I had to steer a very reluctant and nervous girl around the school. The Headmaster was dashing us around giving us a quick tour of the school, but Ellen was walking slower than molasses in the winter. Clay and I kept pushing her on the back to try to make her move quicker, but I swear if we would have let her, she would have made a break for it and run for the hills. Poor thing.
Here she is in her Shmarmy-Marmy Uniform. Uh, and yes they go to school in a renovated Butler building, what of it?

This is the father that just dropped his daughter off at school for the first day. It doesn’t matter how old she is, he can’t take it. He wanted to run back in the building, scoop her up and swaddle her in a blanket. He hates the first day of school, he doesn’t like to say goodbye to his kids. He finds no joy in letting them go and that’s pretty darn sweet if you ask me. I can’t imagine what he’s going to be like on her wedding day…geesh, we’re going to need a good therapist.
Then we headed to the house to unload the trucks. Just when I started to get something done, I had to head out the door to deliver Ike to afternoon Kindergarten. Here he is on his first day. He was so excited and so was Levi, he really thought he’d get to stay right there by his brother, but was sorely disappointed when I told him we had to leave, it wasn’t pretty. Oh, by the way Ike’s teacher, the one doing the arabesque in the background, she’s really sweet and stands about a foot taller than Ike, she’s little. Also, the class in made up entirely of blond headed boys.

Oh, I forgot to say RECHELLE single handedly unloaded the entire U-Haul and put together all the beds and tables using only her finger nails to tighten the screws, she’s amazing!
That week Barbie Doll and Deborah came to visit. We took the kids out back and made them climb over a barbed wire fence onto this old Chevy that sits on Ramone’s property to take photos. Who doesn’t love an old Chevy truck? Especially with cute kids as hood ornaments?
And a pretty teenager, who would rather be getting a pedicure than touch a rusty object.
I want that Chevy. I want to fix it up, paint it red and make it my vehicle. I’ll fill it with pumpkins in the fall and a big Christmas tree in winter.
Good buddies arm wrestlin‘ on the rusty Chevy. When’s the last time your child had a tetanus shot? That question keeps coming to my mind, maybe I ought to get the kids up to date, eh?
Deborah, exhausted after staying up until 2:00 in the morning doing a sewing project. But, she still manages to look beautiful, twit.
Barbie Doll, she had decided my house will be her new vacation spot. She’s coming again in November, I can’t wait.
This is the view from my back porch. Do you think the farmer will notice I snatched a dozen stalks? Should I put them back? The previous owners left behind a world of treasures in the barn and the lean-to. See the back-pitch? Seth pulled that out of the lean-to.
Here’s what you all have been waiting to see. The porch furniture. This is what Barbie and Deborah helped me do. We stayed up until 2:00am two nights in a row sewing, drinking, laughing, complaining and ultimately deciding we are not professional seamstresses, but we do know how to create “cute”.
Deb
orah and I no longer have any feeling left in our right hands due to emptying twenty odd spray cans of black paint onto this wicker furniture. Look at Ramone’s cattle in the background, they like the furniture too…I mean they like it moooooo.
Dang, it turned out so CUTE! Okay, the boy and kitten are pretty cute too.
Did I mention we came with two cats and now have six? Yeah, six. I’m the cat lady, with cute porch furniture.

Moving Day Remembered

It’s been two weeks since we packed up the U-Haul, but it feels like months. I can’t believe it, I’m in some sort of weird weird time suspension.

It’s time to share some stories, tell some folks thanks and show some pictures, doncha think?

This is my oldest son and his best bud, which just so happens to be my dear friend Deborah’s little boy. They came over to help us before the big moving day.  I caught the boys outside taking apart shelving and talking just like they were a couple of old men.  I watched them for awhile and then snuck a few photos.  These two boys were so sweet together and so much alike it’s frightening.
We can’t move from a place unless it’s icy or rainy.  Moving day was rainy.  We backed the truck up as close to the garage as possible and then rigged a tarp between the roof and the truck.  Look at the crew that showed up to help us.  They were such a blessing and  they’re smiling….because they were happy to help, not because we were leaving…I think.
These are my peeps, my girls, my entourage.  The brunette, let’s just call her “Barbie Doll” is about 10 years younger than me, she’s the little sister I never had.  I can boss her around and tell her not to do stuff and she actually listens to me and then does back flips, cartwheels and a few yoga poses to help me and she still comes out looking like Julia Roberts with a perfect complexion, skinny legs and enough voluminous hair for ten people…twit.  She’s also the mother of Ike’s future wife.  Then there’s Deborah, the blond in the middle.  She’s my older (yes she is older, 5 whole years older…shut-up, she does to look older than me!) anyway, she’s my wiser, older, calmer, friend.  She’s the mother of my older kids’ buddies.  I learned so much from her, like how to communicate better with my kids and to open my home to others no matter what.  She was always up for any project, craft or party, she kept me going during some really yucky times and I don’t think I ever told her how much I respected her, but maybe she’ll start reading my blog and then she’ll know.  She looks beautiful all day everyday no matter what…twit.
Here’s one of Deborah’s girls with Ellen.  This one gave me a big hard hug and then we both just sobbed the day we loaded the U-haul.  She is such a sweet girl, Ellen adores her.
This is Deborah’s wonderful husband.  Do you see a theme here?  Yeah, they’re all very photogenic and beautiful….jerks.  After a long day of loading the truck and cleaning the house, Deborah had “Barbie Doll’s” family and my family over for dinner.  
When I say my family I mean my family and my parents.  Here’s Deborah in her kitchen doing what she does best, serving.  That’s my mom getting the pleasure of Deborah’s fine home cookin’.  And that cute little girl is Deborah’s youngest and she absolutely idolized my Ellen.
We went home and slept on the floor that night.  Sunday morning we woke to finish the last bit of packing and scrub the house.  My parents were a whirlwind of energy and I was so glad they were there.  Dad wrestled on the floor with the little’s and Mom told the older two stories and kept them laughing instead of crying, cause Clay and I were pretty sad and I don’t think we had much left in us to keep the kids morale up.
We took our two cast with us despite their protests and they are adjusting fairly well here.
The trucks and vans were loaded.  The last thing we did before leaving TBLDBT was gather in a circle and pray.  We thanked God for the time we had in Missouri and for all the wonderful people that had crossed our paths, we asked Him to bless all those who had helped us on our journey and we asked for His hand to be with us as we traveled and settled in our new home.
Thank you to all who came to help us, you were such a blessing that day.

Jack, Monte, Steve, Mark, Wes, John, Johnny, Bryan, Allan, Hope, Mel, Deborah.
THANK YOU!!

Dorothy? Toto? That you?

I can’t find my blinkin‘ battery charger for my camera, so I can’t show you all the ridiculous amount of energy I’ve put into decorating my porch….it’s just too fun to leave alone. But, my sistorian has documented some of my craziness….so go check it out.

Things I’ve forgotten about Kansas, but am enjoying all the same…
The Wind- Good Gawd the WIND! No hills and mountains to block your view or the WIND!
The Dry Climate- My eyes, my throat, my nose, my skin….all dried up and turned to dust a few days ago and then blew across the corn field while I was stealing stocks from the farmer next door….shhhhh, don’t tell.
The People- They act like I never left. I’ve had emails and phone calls from folks telling me to come to this and that and wanting to meet my kids and blah, blah, blah….it’s wonderful.